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westwardHo88 (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
I think he's just saying that you should do things similar/same as them to make them more comfortable/relate to you better. And personally i would feel like the person was making fun of me if they synchronized with me! so i'm guessing you should probably do it later or soon after.
RustedBovine (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
This video is absolutely loaded with NLP.Notice how he moves his head. Does it seem a little strange to you? With lots of emphasis movements, and very specific nods in certain directions for certain kinds of words. All NLP experts do it if you watch, they'll bob their head around, gesticulate wildly, sometimes wave a finger or shift their weight from side to side, and over-move their mouth when they talk.
palladianclub (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
Steve G. Jones is a brilliant Clinical Hypnotherapist.I always say that he is the therapist's therapist.Rock on, brother!!!
kinabear (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
Nice bed head! Hehe!
ImpliedBodyMan (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
I think perhaps that mirroring is what we do when we want control over another person, without the other person feeling any traditional conflicts (like "giving themselves over.") When we act like the other, but not mirror, we are in accord with them. Try it! test mirroring, then test doing. You'll find there is a much more unconscious you revealed when you just DO what the other does. You might even kiss.
TheForce74 (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
Do you have to synchronize the actions you want to mirror, with your dialog partner, or can you repeat them later?
diabolusX9 (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
Hey there, very simple, probably the simplest iv heard. And cos of lack of jargon and xtra explanation, it hits the point and keeps it there. I think this was very practical and affective in illustrating the point. Great Job. How do I anchor past success to things I want to achieve now?? How do I detach from the feeling of uncertainty and fear of the PAST. Great Job. Keep the love flowing......thank you
Jrnavia (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
After reading a lot about NLP, i wasn´t sure how to mirror. Thanks, Great Job!
nonaestet (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
he blinks several times to make you blink, as well as many of the things he does in the first 20 seconds, like touching his shoulder
juniper3 (December 31, 1969 at 6:59 pm)
Yes, I noticed too. |
